WHY IS EVERYONE ALONE - PARTNERSHIP CRISIS!
In recent years, there has been a great battle of the sexes in America, with the goal of accusing each other that the sex is to blame for the fact that love and partnership are increasingly disappearing. Unfortunately, this trend has reached both Serbia and the Balkans, so now you can see many internet speakers, male and female, accuse or even openly insult the opposite sex. In this way, increasing polarization between already distant sexes is created, which further deepenes the love crisis.
If anyone is wondering why more and more people are single, the answer is simple: because it is part of the global agenda. The goal is to polarize each part of society, direct it against the other group, and thus enable an easier transition into totalitarian reality.
YouTube algorithms push content like this, rewarding creators with monetary premiums, while invisible forces amplify inner feelings of satisfaction, achievement, and success every time we publicly, or at least within ourselves, condemn the opposite sex and make a clear distinction between "us" and "them."
The answer to the question why today about 30% of people in the period of 20 to 40 years are only, with the prediction that in the next 5 years this percentage will increase even up to 50%, is simple again: because the goal of the "black hats" is not to multiply but to molest among themselves,how they would easily implement their agendas through the "rule and then rule" strategy.
From the practical side there is a different view:
Women are by nature hypergamous beings, which means that they are looking for as capable, stronger, stronger, smarter, richer and socially influential men as possible (while such men are polygamous by nature). Women base their attraction to men on the sum of these factors. All studies show that women of only 20% of men consider attractive and adequate partners, while 80% of women are attractive to men.
One of the reasons for the above lies in the fact that today we live in a society where testosterone levels in young men are lower than it was in old men 70 years ago. Thus we come to a situation where men are becoming weaker and more passive, while women, empowered by education, business successes and new social roles, become increasingly independent and selective. Women are becoming closer and closer in playing male roles, which raises their threshold of demanding "strong" men, while decreasing most men's interest in relationships with strong women, because they feel threatened. Men with lower testosterone do not show qualities that women appreciate, and on the other hand, these men do not appreciate "strong" women and their qualities, which are their repulsion and reinforce internal weaknesses.
I also noticed that a large number of women, if not most, work on themselves noticeably more than men do, psychologically, spiritually, and even physically. Women today invest far more in their own development compared to men, who in modern society increasingly choose comfort and avoiding effort. This leads to problems because it becomes increasingly difficult for women to find interlocutors and partners on their own communicative and intellectual level.
But those men who possess desired characteristics because of the great choice and selection, can choose and usually choose everything, and change women regularly, and women then get the impression that all men are pigs, cheat and don't respect women. Historically, it has been proven that only 40 percent of men reproduced throughout history, while this number for women is about 90 percent. In today's society it is 15 percent of men from the top of the hypergamous scale who change women and create the image that all men are the same. The reality is that all men who are chosen for relationships are the same.
Polls say that many women would rather remain single for the rest of their lives and without children, than be with a man who is below their level - whether it is a level of intelligence, income, consciousness or appearance, this continues to raise otherwise already high demands. This used to be controlled by arranged marriages, and today when there is no one to arrange marriage for some men, those without superior characteristics cannot provide it for themselves. From other shit women are often delusional, and they raise their worth on the basis of appearance, or any imagination, and not on the basis of their real values and feminine traits, and they reject men believing that they are below their rank, which is often not the case.
When we add social networks, which in the first place highlight false values and raise the illusion of the average woman and man high, and increase the sense of endless availability and choice, we come to the point where everyone is constantly waiting for something better, looking for more, comparing and postponing, while all real and quality options slowly disappearing.
At the end, there is also a problem of missing traditional social roles. Where there are no clearly defined social roles and upbringing that supports them, there cannot be a stable marriage either. In the past, it was exactly these roles — mothers and housewives, father and host — that provided the framework of life in which partners, despite problems, falls and accidents, fought together and moved toward the same goal. This was the framework and the main reason to enter into a relationship: mutual growth, problem solving, child rearing, community progress.
People nowadays usually enter into love relationships to feel beautiful, have fun or sexually explore, and not to build a future with a partner. Everyone is looking for "human love" i.e. emotional superiority that occurs in situations of tension, uncertainty, seduction and lasts up to a year. these feelings to women are generally caused only by men at the top of the chart, who exploit their ability to reach a larger number of women .. In the past, the feeling of love, excitement or similarity was not the first place, but respect, security, future and children. Today, however, both men and women detest these roles and consider them outdated, backwards and captive. Maybe they are right, but life is not a fairy tale but a rough road that requires endless renunciation, work, effort and patience. Where the anchors rise on the first problem and run off the deck, it is logical that every relationship will be doomed.
And here we are, where we are: there are fewer people, fewer couples, fewer children, and more gender conflict, division among sexes, mutual accusation, shallow relationships, loneliness and unfulfillment. We have a future in which many will live alone, significantly poorer than in previous generations where husband and wife each fulfilling their roles allowed for greater progress, and to look after dogs and cats instead of creating families.
Unfortunately, I don't see a quick and near solution to this crisis. The gap will forever be widened. This seems to be a stage humanity must go through — until we learn to respect the other sex and the roles that each brings to a common relationship, to make that relationship complete and sustainable. Maybe in the end we realize that genders and their roles in this society are different and that we are not here to make it nice, but to build something together and grow individually and collectively through the common path.
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