Pa ne e ni cudno....zatoa amerikancite go napadile...droga sex i rokenrol.... raper vo koskite...
--- надополнето: 8 јули 2012 во 12:14 ---
Epa ti shto gi sledish shamanite....koi se pa tie?
Им го земал бизнисот...
--- надополнето: 8 јули 2012 во 12:44 ---
Еве вистинска медитација... уживајте...
Love never possesses and love can never be possessed. True love leads you into freedom. Freedom
is the highest peak, the ultimate value. And love is closest to freedom; the next step after love is
freedom. Love is NOT against freedom; love is a stepping-stone towards freedom. That’s what
awareness will make clear to you: that love has to be used as a stepping-stone for freedom. If you
love you make the other free. And when you make the other free, you are made free by the other.
Love is a sharing, not an exploitation. And in fact love never thinks in terms of ugliness and beauty
either. You will be surprised: love never thinks in terms of ugliness and beauty. Love only acts,
reflects, meditates – never thinks at all.
Yes, sometimes it happens that you fit with somebody – suddenly, everything falls in harmony. It is
not a question of beauty or ugliness: it is a question of harmony, a rhythm.
Somebody has asked a question about what Gurdjieff used to say: that for every man there is a
corresponding woman somewhere on the earth, for every woman there is a corresponding man
somewhere on the earth. EACH one is born with the polar opposite. If you can find the other,
everything will fall in harmony immediately. All their centers function harmoniously – that is love. It
is a very rare phenomenon. It is very rare to find a couple who really fit together. Our society exists
with such taboos, such inhibitions, that it is almost impossible to find the real mate, the real friend.
In Eastern mythology we have a story, a beautiful myth, that in the beginning when the world was
created, each child was born not alone but as a couple: one boy, one girl, together, from the same
mother. Twins, fitting with each other totally – that was the couple. They were in tune in every way
with each other.
Then man fell from grace – just the idea of the original sin – man fell from grace, and as a punishment
couples were no more born from the same mother. Still they are born! Gurdjieff is right – that’s my
own observation too. Each person has a divine mate somewhere. But to find them is very difficult,
because you may be white and your other polarity may be black; you may be a Hindu and your other
polarity may be a Mohammedan; you may be Chinese and the other polarity may be German.
In a better world, people will search and seek, and unless you can find the real person who can fit
with you, you will remain in a kind of tension, anguish. If you are alone you are in anguish; if you
meet the other person you are in anguish if the other person does not fit with you, or only fits so
far. Now, through scientific investigation also this has been found, that there are people who fit and
there are people who don’t fit. Scientific arrangements can be made now; each person can declare
his centers, his birthchart, his rhythm – now there is every possibility to find the other person who
fits exactly. The world has become very small, and once you have found the other person... it is
not a question of beauty and ugliness at all. In fact, there is nobody who is ugly and nobody who is
beautiful. The ugly person may fit with somebody – then the ugly person is beautiful for that person.
Beauty is a shadow of harmony. It is not that you fall in love with beautiful persons; the process is
just the opposite: when you fall in love with some person, the person looks beautiful. It is love that
brings the idea of beauty in, not vice versa.
But it is rare to find a person who totally fits with you. Whenever somebody is fortunate enough, life
is lived with a melody; then two bodies and one soul. That is a real couple. And whenever you can
find that kind of couple, there will be great grace and great music around that couple, a great aura,
beautiful light, a silence. And love then naturally leads into meditation.
People should be allowed to meet and mix to find.... People should not be in a hurry to get married.
The hurry is dangerous; it only brings divorces, or it brings a life of long long misery. Children should
be allowed to meet with each other. And we should drop all pre-technological taboos, inhibitions;
they are no more relevant.
We are living in a post-technological age; man HAS become mature and he HAS to change many
things, because many things are wrong. They were developed in the old days; it was a necessity
then – it is no more a necessity now. For example, now people can live together, men and women;
there is no need to be in a hurry to get married. And if you have known many men and many women,
only then will you know who fits with you and who does not fit. It is not a question of a long nose or a
beautiful face; somebody may have a beautiful face and you feel attracted, and may have beautiful
eyes and big eyes and you feel attracted, and the colour of the hair... but these things don’t matter!
When you live together, after two days you will not note the colour of the hair, and after three days
you will not note the length of the nose; and after three weeks you will have completely forgotten
about the physiology of the other. Now the reality impinges upon you. Now the real thing will be
spiritual harmony.
Marriage up to now has been a very ugly affair. And priests were happy to allow it – not only happy
to allow it, they were the ones who invented it. And there was some reason why priests all over
the world have been in favour of this ugly marriage that has been on the earth for five thousand
years. The reason was: if people are miserable, then only do they go to the churches, do they go
to the temples; if people are miserable, only then are they ready to renounce life. If people are
miserable, only then are they in the hands of the priests. A happy humanity will have nothing to do
with the priests. Obviously! If you are healthy, you have nothing to do with the doctor. If you are
psychologically whole, you have nothing to do with the psychoanalyst. If you are spiritually whole,
you will not have anything to do with the priest.
And the greatest spiritual disharmony is created by marriage. Priests have created hell on the earth.
That is their trade secret – then people are bound to come to ask them what to do. Life is so
miserable! And then they can tell them how to get free of life. Then they can give you rituals how
never to be born again, how to get out of the wheel of birth and death. they have made life such a
hell, and then they teach you how to get rid of it.
My effort is just the opposite: I want to create heaven here-now, so that there is no need to get rid
of anything. There is no need to think of getting rid of birth and death, and there is no need for the
old, so-called religions. More music is needed, more poetry is needed, more art is needed, certainly
more mysticism is needed, more science is needed – and then there will be a totally different kind
of religion born, a new religion. A religion which will not teach you anti-life ideologies but will help
you to live your life in more harmony, more artistically, more sensitively, more centered, rooted in the
earth. A religion which will teach you the art of life, the philosophy of life, and will teach you how to
be more festive.